Parenting With Goodness

Podcast Title: Parenting with Goodness

The Teachable Woman Podcast – Parenting Series

Hosts: Rev. Michele Owes & Rev. Diana P. Cherry

Episode Introduction

Welcome back to The Teachable Woman Podcast, where Reverends Michele Owes and Diana P. Cherry explore how to raise children according to God’s Word. In this episode, Parenting with Goodness, the conversation centers on how the fruit of the Spirit—specifically goodness—guides Christian parenting. The hosts remind us that parenting is not just about instruction, but spiritual formation, and that the Holy Spirit empowers us to parent God’s heritage with love, joy, peace, and goodness.

Show Note 1: The Power of the Holy Spirit in Parenting

Rev. Cherry opens by reminding listeners that the fruit of the Spirit comes from the capital “S” Spirit—God’s Spirit. We cannot exemplify the fruit of the Spirit without His indwelling presence. The hosts emphasize the need to be filled with the Holy Spirit and to pray in the Spirit regularly. Without that connection, it becomes impossible to operate in love, patience, gentleness, or goodness as parents.

“We’re not teaching you anything that the Spirit of God will not strengthen you to do.” – Rev. Diana P. Cherry

Show Note 2: The Gift of the Holy Spirit is for Every Believer

Rev. Cherry shares her personal testimony of receiving the baptism of the Holy Spirit—while driving in her car during a rainstorm! Her husband had a similar experience without anyone laying hands on him. Both affirm that the Holy Spirit is a free gift from God, not something earned. Rev. Owes encourages listeners to ask God with a humble heart for His Spirit, trusting that He withholds no good thing from His children.

“If we ask, He will most certainly give.” – Rev. Michele Owes

Show Note 3: Teaching God’s Heritage with His Character

The hosts remind us that children are not our possession but God’s heritage. Parents are entrusted to raise them “in the nurture and admonition of the Lord.” Every moment—morning, evening, walking, or sitting—is an opportunity to teach God’s Word. Parenting with goodness means modeling the fruit of the Spirit daily: love, joy, peace, patience, gentleness, and goodness.

“There’s no time that God does not want us teaching His children about Him.” – Rev. Michele Owes

Show Note 4: Goodness as a Reflection of God’s Nature

Rev. Owes defines goodness as producing a beneficial effect in the lives of others—a virtue that is excellent in quality and rooted in divine influence. True goodness is not just moral behavior; it is Spirit-led action that blesses others. She recounts an example of bringing what seemed like a good movie into her home that turned out not to be beneficial, underscoring the need to seek God’s guidance in all things.

“Only God can know how things will affect others. When we seek Him, He will certainly answer.” – Rev. Michele Owes

Show Note 5: Be the Best You Can Be – Practicing Goodness Daily

Rev. Cherry defines goodness simply: being and doing good, not evil. She encourages parents to model excellence by doing their best in every situation. This includes self-control, humility, and gentleness—even when frustrated. She reminds listeners to “stop, think, and don’t say it” when emotions rise. Sometimes, children can even help remind us when we’re not acting right!

“Be your best. You’re not being your best when you’re yelling and screaming and letting everything upset you.” – Rev. Diana P. Cherry

Show Note 6: Repairing Relationships with a Spirit of Goodness

The hosts encourage parents to be quick to apologize, mend broken relationships, and allow the Lordship of Christ to guide every decision. Being “spiritual” isn’t about appearances or titles—it’s about humility, repentance, and obedience. They remind listeners that while many accept Jesus as Savior, few truly allow Him to be Lord over their behavior and choices.

“Be spiritual enough to apologize, to humble yourself—even before your children.” – Rev. Diana P. Cherry

Show Note 7: A Teachable Spirit for Parents and Children

Rev. Owes closes by acknowledging that both hosts are learning even as they teach. Growth in goodness requires daily surrender and constant awareness of the Holy Spirit’s presence. Parenting with goodness is not perfection—it’s the willingness to yield to God moment by moment, trusting Him to shape both parent and child.

“There is no perfection here—just two women who want to obey God and have Him rule in our lives.” – Rev. Michele Owes

Episode Summary

In Parenting with Goodness, Revs. Michele Owes and Diana P. Cherry beautifully connect the fruit of the Spirit to practical parenting. They remind listeners that goodness is not just about moral action but about spiritual alignment with God’s will. Through transparency and testimony, they encourage parents to cultivate goodness through prayer, humility, and the guidance of the Holy Spirit. Parenting God’s heritage is both a privilege and a spiritual journey—one that requires daily surrender to God’s love and goodness.

Key Takeaway: Parenting with goodness means letting the Holy Spirit lead—so our actions bring life, peace, and blessing to our children and everyone around us.